bigstiffy: Hey fellas. Today I’d thought I’d share with you a...

bigstiffy:

Hey fellas. Today I’d thought I’d share with you a video. This is a video that I made yesterday, in fact, and it pretty much shows me at my utmost bator bliss. Totally gooned out, as some would say. I thought it would be good to add here as it will also give you an idea of what kind of bator I am. It’s me, naked, both literally and figuratively. As I said before I pretty much put it all out there.

This was an awesome session! Every session is pretty great, don’t get me wrong, but you know how some bates are just so amazing? They take you to another place because they feel so good. I was pretty much lost in it for this vid. I had been jerkin for about an hour and a half and edging real good. I started off caming with some buds, then moved on to porn, but really it’s the mere fact of being in front of the camera that got me so turned on. My exhibitionism at it’s finest.

I post this vid for another reason as well, to talk about verbal guys. I’m pretty verbal, even when I’m by myself, but it really turns me on when I’m with guys that get verbal too. However, there is a fine line. To me there are different types of verbal guys: The ones that barely allow themselves to do it. They just moan and say things like, “Oh yeah”, “Mmmm that’s good” and stuff like that. Then there are the inbetweeners (this is where I put myself). They go a step beyond and really say what’s on their mind like, “Suck my big dick”, or, “You want that dick, don’t you?”. Then there are the dudes that take it one step further and go all-out porno. I don’t have to tell you the kinds of things they say, but it’s almost to the point to where it takes you out of the mood.

I’ve gotten into some roll play before, and that requires a little more verbal than I’m used to, but if done right, it can be fun. I just don’t want it to get so over the top that it sounds like a cheesy porno. So much so that you feel like you have to keep from laughing. I’m all for talking during sex, in fact I’ve fallen into every one of these categories at some point, I just ask that you don’t mentally take me away from the matters at hand.

I’m not saying there anything wrong with any of these types of verbal guys, I just want to challenge you to push your boundaries a bit. I read somewhere that people who make noises during sex, are happier, more expressive people…so let it out!

I personally don’t understand how you can’t at least moan while getting off. To me it just feels SO damn good that I don’t see how you can’t throw your head back, bite your lip, open your mouth and let out a scream. How many of us have seen those vids of dudes jerking off that when they finally reach climax, the just sit there…no convulsing…no noise…no nothing! It boggles my mind. Maybe it stems from the fact that most guys were trained early on (due to circumstances like sharing rooms or afraid of someone next door hearing them) to keep it quiet. That’s understandable, but at some point, when you are alone, give it a try. Let it out, give in to the pleasure and I guarantee it will take you to a place you never thought you could get to.